开沟机，自强的女人：在物品面前做出选择

渣男太多，我要自立自强，不要依赖男人。我庆幸遇到大壮，也感谢老爸一直的支持。

我花的是自己打拼赚来的钱。带来的不仅是财富，更是一种自信自立的精神。我曾经输过、败过、哭过，但从来都没有怕过。她们就喜欢这样活着！不委屈求全，不委屈求财。人格独立，思想独立，经济独立，情感也独立！没有公主的命，但有一颗女王的心，送给所有正在打拼的女人们……

情绪这种东西，非得严加控制不可。一味纵容地自悲自怜，便越来越消沉。我要努力赚钱！不是因为我爱钱。而是这辈子我不想因为钱和谁在一起，也不想因为钱而离开谁！女人要尊严，就必须自立！

女人要自立，不可以依附于任何人。一切都会变，人不需要你的时候，你存在即是多余。乌啦啦，要努力挣钱吧，让自己的生活更有保障。

没有血缘关系就是没有血缘关系，每当有事情发生的时候，我永远是最孤单的一个。幸好，我还有女儿。女人真的一定一定要自立。

不要相信一个正在对别的女人发情的男人对你的保证，因为没有用，他欺骗你一次，还会有第二次。woman应该坚强，要self-contained，不要依靠男人，即使结婚后他对你百依百顺。

woman应该被男人养，用男人的钱，这样没人会看得起。但这是错误的观念，我们应该追求自己的价值和尊严。

果然woman self-contained才少受伤害。

我一直认为woman should be self-contained, self-respect, and love oneself without relying on others, not seeking comfort or wealth from them, but instead raising one's own abilities and becoming independent.

10., even if someone gives you comfort or advice, remember that the only person who can heal your wounds is yourself. Remember that women should rely on themselves and not expect men to provide for them; otherwise, they will always feel inferior in front of them.

11., woman should learn to be independent and have their own money so they can buy what they want without losing their principles or forgetting their initial intentions.

12., woman should be independent in all aspects: economically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally; she has the power to make her own decisions.

13., it doesn't matter if a woman isn't strong like a man; she just needs to be economically independent, ideologically independent, living independently and spiritually independent; then why do we need men?

14., my mother told me how hard life is; my father told me about having courage as a person; my brother told me about being loyal to friends; my husband told me that women must stand by themselves with dignity.

15.. Life is lived for oneself alone - women must love themselves before loving anyone else because no one loves you more than you do yourself.

16.. Women are not dependent on men nor society - I don't understand why lovers need separate lives instead of working together? They either cooperate where one relies on the other leading to imbalance?

17.. So women must stand alone with our needs met by ourselves.

18.. We view problems differently based on our perspectives - male vs female thought processes are different! Today I fought over end-of-school year gifts with him which hurt feelings! Women must stand tall with confidence!

19.. It's time for crisis management after too long an era of ease causing loss of drive for struggle... What am I worth when everything disappears? Woman must stand alone regardless of any man around her.

20.. My mom once said at 18 she'd kick us out but now says leave some space for us when moving...

21.. Some people say work is exhausting & wish they didn't have jobs while boyfriends would say 'don’t go' coz he supports us...I think "why put myself through this much effort?" But sometimes feeling seen by others keeps me going...

22.. To live well enough means never needing anything from anyone else again.

23,,the most beautiful thing about a girl isn’t what’s inside her but what beauty she creates herself…—Shirley Zhang《无出路咖啡馆》

24.."The most beautiful thing about a girl isn’t what’s inside her but what beauty she creates herself…—Shirley Zhang《无出路咖啡馆》"