1、渣男太多，我要靠自己的事业和人生。不能只依赖男人。我庆幸遇到大壮，也感谢我一直坚持的原则。

2、女人要花的是自己赚来的钱。带来的不仅是财富，更是一种自信和独立的精神。她们就喜欢这样活着！不委屈求全，不委屈求财。有自己的想法，有自己的生活，没有人能控制我们。

3、情绪这种东西，非得严加控制不可。一味纵容地自悲自怜，便越来越消沉。我要努力赚钱！不是因为我爱钱，而是这辈子 我不想因为钱而离开谁，也不想因为钱而在一起！

4、女人要自立，不可以依附于任何人。一切都会变，人不需要你的时候你的存在即是多余。乌啦啦，努力挣钱吧，争口气！

5、没有血缘关系就是没有血缘关系，每当有事情发生的时候，我永远是最孤单的一个，但幸好我还有我的事业。我是一个坚强的女人。

6不要相信一个正在对别的女人发情的男人对你的保证，因为没有用，他欺骗你一次，还会有第二次，女人要坚强，要自立，不要依靠男人，即使结婚后他对你百依百顺。

7、女人要自立，有自己的工作，在家庭中才会有地位，才有尊严，不要被现在社会的观念迷惑，你应该被金钱养成的人所看重，这样没人会看得起。

8果然 woman self-reliance can avoid suffering.

9I always believe that women should be independent, strong, and confident. Don't rely on others, don't crave comfort or wealth. Raise yourself through hard work and talent. Be a queen with your own power.

10Maybe someone will give you comfort or advice, but no matter how much hardship you face, remember that only you can heal yourself. Remember that women should rely on themselves, not expect men to support them like a princess. I want to be an independent woman who earns her own money.

11Women should learn to stand alone and have the courage to pursue their dreams without relying on anyone else's approval or validation.

12Women must be economically independent and free in their thoughts and lives as well as spirits.

13Being a woman doesn't mean being weak; it means having the strength of both genders combined within oneself—financial independence from any man is what makes us truly powerful.

14My mother told me living is difficult; my father taught me about honor; my brother showed me how important friendship is; my husband reminded me of self-love—and so do I: Women must stand alone for their own sake!

15Days are lived for our own eyes only—women must love themselves more than anything else because if we don't love ourselves, who will?

16A woman stands independently of men and society—why do two people who love each other need separate lives? Can they really coexist? Or does one person needlessly suffocate the other? That's dependence! So why fight over whether one shines brighter than another when all we want is someone good enough?

17So let us women become self-sufficient in all aspects of life so that everything belongs to us alone!

18It seems we view problems differently based on our perspectives—a man's point of view might differ greatly from a woman's! Today I argued with him about gifts for Dragon Boat Festival—I think women should remain financially dependent on men—that way nobody looks down upon them!

19The feeling creeps up unexpectedly—a sense of crisis after too many easy days has made me lose my drive for struggle! What if one day everything falls apart? A single girl needs something solid under her feet—self-reliance!

20My mom used to tell me once she had no space left at home by age 18—it was time for her daughter to leave home since she wouldn’t provide financial support then today she says if moving house she'll keep room open for me...but why would anyone save space just in case?

21When some say they're tired working hard every day & wish they didn’t have jobs—their boyfriends step in saying 'Why bother going back if not happy?' They take care now...so why am I putting myself through such effort?

22Life becomes fascinating when women are independent—those bound by love may succeed but those weak crumble—the minority wins this game.

23Tired arguing over relationships which never progress… suspecting partners & hating oneself…the warmth provided earlier took away freedom now while freedom returns yet warmth fades away—who wants someone speaking words soothing cold winters & asking about life’s woes instead staying forever solo? Who’d prefer becoming a little lady versus an assertive lady like myself?

24No longer talking romance anymore turned pessimistic - questioning others - despising oneself — previous warmth gave freedom though lost it now - present gives liberty loses warmth again — choose between warm embrace or personal autonomy