1.当自律成为内在的驱动力，你将体会其带来的快乐。2.人生最艰难的考验：既要有耐心等待时机成熟，也要勇于接受可能一无所获的期待。3.我们如何度过每一天，决定了我们如何度过生命；务必专注于现在最重要的事情上。4.没有人能回到过去重新开始，但任何人都可以从现在开始，为自己书写一个全新的人生篇章。5.不要让自己变得太糟糕，如果你真心愿意努力，无论结果如何，都不至于落得个大器晚成之辈。6.安全感并不来自他人的馈赠，而是取决于你对自己的爱护，即便面临困境，只要吃饱穿暖、手机充电、钱包鼓胀，就已足够满足了。7.当你的内心呼唤着你去做某事的时候，不要忽视那份召唤。8。如果找不到继续前行的理由，那就寻找一个重新开始的借口，因为生活本身就是如此简单直接。9.成长意味着与这个世界和解，接受自己的不足，也接受他人的不完美。这正是生活给予我们的礼物之一。

10.your time is limited, do not waste it on repeating someone else's life, let alone let others' opinions drown out your own voice.

11.Be independent, brave, strong, warm and hardworking; this is the true form of a woman you should strive to be.

12.All efforts are not for others to acknowledge your greatness but for you to look up to yourself with pride from within.

13.Do not be like an orange that gets squeezed dry and then discarded; instead be like a tree that blooms in spring and harvests fruit in autumn year after year.

14.Sometimes things get better if we just let go and look at them objectively without getting too worked up over them; heartening oneself is the best gift one can give.

15.The best therapy for life is work itself; once busy enough, all bad feelings will fade away as exhaustion sets in and leaves no room for self-pity or drama.

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