1.人生最大的悲哀不是失去太多，而是计较太多，这也是导致一个人不快乐的重要原因。生活就像一张画布，我们每个选择和经历都在上面绘制着自己的故事，过度计较往往会让我们错过了这幅画的美好之处。

2.我们总是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻。这种矛盾的心态让我们的关系变得复杂，让亲近的人感受到疏离，让陌生人的友善显得虚伪。

3.人的一生就像一篇文章，只有经过多次精心修改，才能不断完善。每一次的努力，每一次的失败，都是一种修订，是生命写作中的一个新章节。

4.对待生活中的每一天若都像生命中的最后一日去对待，人生定会更精彩。这需要我们时刻保持警觉，不要把任何一天浪费掉，因为这一天可能就是你未来的起点。

5.人是可以快乐地生活的，只是我们自己选择了复杂，选择了叹息！简单而真诚地拥抱生活，那么即使是在逆境中，也能找到幸福之光。

6.不管从什么时候开始，重要的是开始以后不要停止;不管在什么时候结束，重要的是结束以后不要后悔。这需要勇气和决心，因为只有这样，我们才能真正意义上拥有属于自己的宝贵时间。

7.抱最大的希望，为最大的努力，做最坏的打算。这样的心态能够帮助我们在困难面前保持积极向上的精神状态，即使遇到挫折，也不会放弃希望，因为希望给予我们的力量无穷大。

8.成功来自使我们成功的信念。当信念坚定时，即便面临重重障碍，我们也能找到通往成功的小径，因为信念本身就是一种强大的动力源泉。

9.相互了解是朋友，相互理解是知己。在这个世界上，没有比理解和被理解更珍贵的事物了，它们构建着深厚的情谊，是人类社会进步与发展不可或缺的一部分。

10.nothing is failure, unless you stop trying.

11.however others may disregard you, never forget to cherish yourself.

12.you must succeed, for failure is not an option.

13.though we cannot alter our fate, we can transform our outlook on life; though we cannot change the environment, we can reshape our mindset.

14.if you still believe that youth is a time to waste away your days and years without purpose or direction, then you will end up with nothing but regret when old age arrives.

15.when happy, remember that happiness is not eternal; when suffering, recall that pain too shall pass.

16.fate resembles the unique pattern of one's fingerprints - though twisted and curved at times yet forever under your control.

17.do not squander your life in places where later you will surely regret it being spent so foolishly

18.the wind has its own rhythm: sometimes it may break sails but without the wind there would be no journey by boat

19.to make a decision isn't difficult - what's hard is taking action and sticking to it until the end

20.if only one could see their own flaws as accurately as they criticize those of others then their life would truly stand out from the crowd

21.no matter how grand or insignificant one feels themselves to be - there are always those who surpass them in strength while among misfortunes someone else's sufferings are even more unbearable than one's own

22.carrying past sorrows interwoven with present troubles does no good for anyone's soul

23.only by wiping clean all achievements made thus far can room be made for new things which allows us continually to transcend ourselves

24.life is a single-way ticket with no return trip provided by God himself

25.living in yesterday means losing today while living in tomorrow means losing tomorrow itself but living today holds onto both past and future

26.endure pains another cannot endure eat bitterness another dare not eat this perseverance leads to unattainable gains

27.most people lament over opportunities lost yet ignore opportunities right before them now

28.a lazy boy becomes a destitute old man later on if he doesn't change his ways now

29.difficulties are rough stones stepping stones for some stumbling blocks for others strong men use them as stepping stones upon which they stand tall against adversity 30

smile at life through fog smile at life through trials smile at danger smile into darkness light up darkness