义乌网：自强女人的智慧，独立女性的力量

在物品世界里，我们要像女人一样，不依赖他人。老爸教导我们，要有自己的事业和生活，不要寄望于男人。我幸运地遇到了一位大壮，也感激老爸一直以来的关注。

女人花的是自己努力赚来的钱，这不仅是财富，更是一种自信和独立的精神。她们经历了输、败、哭，但从未放弃过。这种生活方式让她们感到快乐！她们不求全责备，也不为金钱折腰。个性独立、思想独立、经济独立，情感也如此。虽然不是公主，但心中有女王，那就是给所有打拼的女人们的一份鼓励……

情绪必须得到严格控制，一味纵容自己的悲伤，将会越来越消沉。我要努力工作！这并非因为我热爱工作，而是因为我不想为了金钱而与某些人在一起，也不会因为金钱而离开他们！一个真正尊严的女人必须自立！

女人要自立，不应该依附任何人。一切都会变，你并不需要他人的存在，就算你存在也是多余。在这个过程中，坚持挣钱吧，让你的声音响起！

没有人血缘关系就没有血缘关系，每当事情发生时，我总是最孤单的一个，幸好我还有孩子。女儿，是我们唯一可以依靠的人。在这个世界上，没有谁能比得上她。

不要相信那个正在追求其他女人的男人，他对你的承诺毫无用处。他可能欺骗你一次，又何止一次？一个真正坚强的女人不会依赖男人，即使结婚后他对你百般宠爱。

一个真正成功的女人应该拥有自己的职业，在家庭中才会有权力，有尊严。不被社会现实迷惑，被男人养活，用男人的钱，这样别人才会看得起你。

如此说来，一个真正坚强的女人才能少受伤害。

9 我一直认为，一个优秀的女性应该自立、自强、自尊和自爱，她 shouldn't 依赖别人，也 shouldn't 贪图享受，要提升自身修养，要有一技之长，无论离什么都不会怕，有爱心——

10 也许别人才给了你安慰和劝告，无论多么委屈或难受，都记住，最终治愈自己的是自己。你是一个独一无二的人，你只需相信自己，不应指望男人包养你。如果这样，你将永远抬不起头来。我想要成为那种能够照顾好自己的人。

11 woman should learn to stand on their own feet, with money comes independence and the freedom to choose what you want without losing your principles or forgetting where you came from.

12 woman must be independent in spirit, thought, life and finances; have self-respect and the power of self-determination; they don’t need men for validation.

13 woman may not necessarily become a strong-willed person but she must be economically independent, intellectually independent, socially independent and spiritually independent; she needs to have control over her own life choices.

14 my mother told me that living is hard work; my father told me that one must have backbone; my brother advised me to stand by friends when needed; my man reminded me that women should love themselves first —— this is what I learned about being an independently strong woman.

15 days are lived for our own eyes only - women should love themselves more than anyone else because if you don’t love yourself how can you expect others to? You cry tears of sorrow for someone else's happiness while he just laughs at you - a mere accessory in his life.

16 women must be independent of men and society - I really don’t understand why people who love each other need to fight for survival instead of working together? If we cooperate it becomes dependency which leads to one person getting lost in the other?

17 so women should strive for independence until everything they desire belongs solely to them.

18 it seems we view things differently based on perspective - male vs female thinking! Today I had a disagreement with him over gifts during the Dragon Boat Festival... hurtful!

19 no matter how comfortable life gets or how secure your position feels, there's always a sense of crisis looming ahead waiting for us all... maybe someday if I lose everything (money house car) what will I do?

20 once upon a time my mom used say "when you're 18 years old there’s no place left here" ... today she tells me "if we move keep one room open”... “you'll come back home eventually”

21 hearing some people talk about work being too tiring saying they'd rather not go anymore… then their boyfriends would tell them “don't go if it’s tiring” “I’ll take care of you”...

22 i feel like i'm wasting away trying so hard but still falling behind everyone else’s expectations…

23 every day is lived under scrutiny- as long as there are those who look down on us we cannot rest easy

24 won’t even try talking about relationships anymore turned into pessimist- never going anywhere- suspecting everyone around me hate myself now

25 finally understanding that true strength lies within oneself not others