1.当我们与那些同样渴望虚荣的人交谈时，他们因虚荣而受折磨的程度，恰好与我们从中获得满足的程度相匹配。

2.虚名之人注视自己的名字，而光荣之人则专注于国家的事业。

3.人们共聚一堂的一个原因，便是能够交换彼此的心理虚名。

4.虚名是母亲，做作是女儿；虚名是罪恶，做作则是惩罚——这两者分别象征着自我爱护的根基和其果实。

5.一个人的虚名往往难以彻底消逝；在某些顽固的情境下，它甚至比依附它的人还要长寿得多。

6.一位女性用她的一生辛勤劳动、最美好的青春去维护一个承诺，她对这一切的虚名可以理解，因为过度言辞常常显得很不值钱。

7.说一个人爱慕虚荣，只不过意味着他喜欢自己在他人心中的影响。而自高自大的个体，则以自己身上产生影响为满足点所在。

8.如杀手一般隐匿其中的是那份会终将败露行迹的虔诚心情。

9.那些试图挽回失去爱意的人其实相当愚蠢，因为他们满足别人的骄傲和虔诚心，但无法触及对方真正的心灵深处。这本身就是一种无谓的追求，是对另一半内心深处真实感受的一种漠视和忽略，不懂得如何真正地触动对方的心灵，而只是一味地诉诸外表上的物质财富或社会地位等表面的东西，以此来彰显自己的存在价值。但这样的行为往往导致反效果，使得原本即将重归于好的关系因为一次次尝试挽回而变得更加微妙复杂，让双方都感到疲惫无力，最终可能不得不接受分手结局，这也正是我所说的"挽回的人其实很笨"。

10."美德带来赞誉，赞誉却带来虞酣"。

11."我们的夸张到如此程度：连那些我们瞧不上眼的小人物看法，我们都会计较一下"。

12."由于大部分时间储藏在自身内，所以最好能开启一个小缝隙，从而免遭被强迫执行者的任意驱使，也就是每天排除一些干扰，对待自己的心理状态进行管理，以避免成为完全被控制的奴隶。

13."如果真回到那种纯粹恋爱，没有乌龙事件，没有金钱上的攀比，我想我会更喜欢这种形式"

14."真正谦卑只能是在面对自己心理弱点后形成的一种态度"

15."男人——尤其是一大多数男人——潜意识里只有两个概念：自尊和虞酣"

16."由我们的虞酣引导去行动起来的事情，比理智促使我们采取行动的事情更多"

17"If you really want to make your dreams come true, first wake up from the dream."

18"People can know what glory is through their pride and what justice is through their conscience."

19"The true characteristic of ignorance is: pride, arrogance and haughtiness."

20"I envy the love atmosphere that surrounds you like a rainbow; it's as if someone who stands tall but cannot breathe in the air above them—a celestial queen in every way—wants not me but a kind of adoration for themselves from you."

21"You don't like my weight? I'll lose some weight! You say I'm not beautiful? I'll learn how to dress up! But even after becoming perfect, will you still be with me? It's not that I'm too proud; it's just something you taught me."

22"As long as one doesn't pretend, even pride can be adorable."

23"People strive for mundane goals—wealth, prestige and luxurious lives—and all this seems so beneath contempt to me."

24". Those who are strong-willed in their vanity sometimes criticize themselves and sometimes praise themselves; they profit from this inner struggle while those who are humble remain silent about themselves throughout."

25". True reputation lies beyond vanity."

26"One moment of vanity can destroy an entire lifetime's achievements."

27"There are scholars who seek truth without fame or name; true fame lies beyond vanity."

28"I don't need to compare myself to everyone else being happy; as long as I am happier than those around me, my vanity will be satisfied"

29"You're not some princess or rich kid whose fever gets everyone talking when she feels unwell,"

30"Loving oneself with pride and self-interest makes one sensitive yet easily confused by feelings of superiority and inferiority—a maze within which one navigates randomly amidst random emotions—such is human nature itself"